We took our indoor wedding fotos last sat. It was fun. I spent most of my time dolling up, while dear just sat by the sofa and wait...he even managed to finish the entire "Noah Ark" documentary while waiting for me. Hehe.. Fotoshoot was fun even though not all the photos turn out well..I do hope I can see a great difference when I go down to choose my fotos next week. At the end of the fotoshoot, we were both tired and hungry. And as I was complaining throughout that I din get to watch Noah Ark, dear requested to borrow the VCD for a week from them. Real sweet of him.
I felt really happy that day...not all couples share so many similar interests and can have such fun together. Guess we are really meant to be. I asked dear on our way in to JB, "do you find it wierd that we are both born on the 14th day and we have the same last letter on our IC?" , he replied, "maybe we're meant to be."
The next day, we went to IMM to buy some stuff for our house. As usual, we were pressed for time as we need to return the car to Dad. We only managed to reach IMM around 2+, since it was very crowded due to the renovation of the openair carpark, we had a difficult time finding a parking lot. I hurried around with my shopping trying my best to do it as fast as I could and dear was walking behind me showing a worried face. I asked him, "are you very worried? if yes, we can leave now." He replied, "no its ok, you carry on." I know he is worried that Papa will be angry...and this made me unable to enjoy my shopping. I don't know why every of our weekend have to be so hectic...I really feel burnt out whenever I think of this. Luckily Papa did not scold us when we called him saying we'll be late. He seems to be more understanding nowadays.
On our way back to the car, I spotted a big crowd, it was Chen Weilian, the SG Superstar..he was rather near me..so I joined the crowd to try to peek a look at him. After looking for a minute, I spotted dear's black face behind me...knowing he is angry, I walk on towards the escalator...saying, "its ok, I don't watch anymore." He replied, "what's so good to watch?" As we drive towards Papa's house, I was unhappy about the rush, and we argued. He said," you know we are already late and you still want to watch wat Weilian." Me, "but i only watch for a minute ma." We continue our arguement and I talk about my feelings throughout the renovation process, how I felt so alone and helpless when most of the things is done and decided by myself alone...instead of consoling me, he continue with his angry tone. I cried. This time I felt really hurt...all the things I am doing is for the good of us. Other husbands will side their wives no matter what..but not mine. He will choose to side with whoever he thinks is right...and no matter how hard I try to get him to see my point, he won't get it.
I ignored him for the rest of the day...as we return back to our new house to continue washing the blinds, he did some silly things to cheer me up. Then he apologized to me. I am not sure how many more times such things will happen again, but like what dear said, "I'll never ever let you run away...cos no matter how high or how far you run, I'll chase after you." Hee~